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I started reading a powerful book this week and I am blown away and completely. Rippling is the first book by Beverly Schwartz, an insider of Ashoka, the foremost global organization on social change through social entrepreneurship. The book presents innovative techniques used by social entrepreneurs to solve the most challenging problems of our time, from inequality to environmental challenges, poverty and social problems. The entrepreneurs who are referred to as changemakers, enablers, innovators, catalysts, role models, and recruiters have the best combination of passion, talent and purpose that allows them to combine and merge creative ideas to tackle real-life challenges. The who, the what, the how is small compared to the execution of the work itself. The life-altering solutions they create set them apart from traditional entrepreneurs and begs the question of “what would it look like if we were all wired to be social entrepreneurs”?

Here are some excerpt from the book.

Currently, social entrepreneurship is as much a field as it is a social movement. A whole new generation of ethical change agents—whether in business or academia or the media—is building a new sensibility about the way we live and interact. For many people, ‘‘social entrepreneurship is now a viable and desirable career path, where work is not just something that you do, but rather something that you are.’’

All of Ashoka’s Fellows (the people Ashoka deems to be leading social entrepreneurs and elect into a lifelong Fellowship of like-minded people) ripple their innovations through society by influencing other social entrepreneurs, the policy development process, and the actions of the private sector. As I came to know the Fellows I interviewed for this book, I found that they all, at a minimum, possessed four inherent qualities:

  • Purpose
  • Passion
  • Pattern
  • Participation

These characteristics have become my favorite manner of determining if the person is starting out with the defining characteristics of what constitutes a social entrepreneur.

Purpose

I have never met an Ashoka Fellow who did not put society above personal interests and was not firmly focused on the fulfillment of their chosen role. Fellows may takemany roads to get there, but the goal is sacrosanct—and they do not get sidetracked by the boulders strewn on the path. Their clarity of purpose is often the decisive factor that brings individual and organizational efforts together. This is because it defines why they are working toward something and why it is worth working on it collectively. Purpose becomes the invisible glue that connects different actions and actors while it bonds everyone with inspiration. It infuses boldness and calculated risk and it creates loyalties by helping people understand why their contribution is valuable and valued. Purpose mitigates fear and allows inspiration to replace fear with action. Purpose leads to a sense of possibility.

Passion

I am not sure if I can separate the passion from the purpose because I have come to believe that both are always present, tightly intertwined and inextricably linked together. Like strands of DNA (which passion and purpose may actually be part of) you cannot pull them apart. Passion connects to spirit and relates to strength—strength of character, of determination, of connection to others. It kindles and nourishes a ‘‘follow one’s heart’’ courage of judgment. Ashoka Fellows have taught me that real strength lies not in the physical realm but in an indomitable spirit, intense passion, and determination aimed toward goals.

Pattern

The entrepreneurs in this book all decorate their own innovation in patterns. They base this on purpose, passion, and personality. But in a bigger sense, these patterns become models or guides for others to follow. The particulars of their patterns differ greatly, and in fact that individuality is the nature of an entrepreneur. They cultivate new ground and put together new combinations of solutions—or maybe they come upwith just one that no one has ever configured in such away. I’d like to say that they ‘‘build a bettermousetrap’’—but in essence, they eradicate the need for mousetraps altogether by figuring out a way to decrease the populations of mice!

Instead of just trying to alleviate the symptoms of problems, their organizations are trying to find the societal patterns that will unlock the clues to solving the underlying issues. To create significant and long-lasting changes, social entrepreneurs must understand and often alter the social system that creates and sustains the problems in the first place. This way of looking upstream toward solving the root cause of a problem is far more sustainable than looking downstream by trying to put a patch on the outcome. To borrow from public health parlance, ‘‘It is not enough to cure the symptom—for a cure to be sustainable, you must treat the underlying illness. If not, the cycle between cause, symptom and illness will continue to evolve causing a spiral of exacerbated and related problems.’’

Participation

The Fellows discussed in this book all exhibit leadership abilities. They are often unanticipated leaders, but whether they perceive themselves to be leaders or not, their ability to influence people and have them believe, follow, and join is an attribute that is completely natural and a necessary component for impact. It is that quality that attracts involvement and eventually morphs into civic engagement.

Certainly our 2011 current events lesson on the strength and accomplishment of civic participation in Egypt should make it obvious why this last characteristic plays such a huge part in an Ashoka Fellows program. As an old but true adage goes, ‘‘There is no strength like strength in numbers.’’ The role of the citizen, of the parent, of the child, of the street vendor, of the teacher, of the government official, of the person who is differently abled or who has positive distractions in changing an entrenched cultural pattern are all of significant consequence. It is as much the number of participants as the quality of the participation that is essential for supported and sustained social change to take place. To think boldly, act locally, and scale globally, innovators need more than their efforts as individuals; they need to get multitudes of people involved in seeing their vision, believing in the possibility, actively supporting it, and participating in creating change themselves. Leading social entrepreneurs know that if they are going to make a scratch on history, they can’t do it alone. There is a point when they all know they must step back and let go of any ego-limiting ownership of the idea if they are to involve and instigate the rise of changemakers who can help spread the seeds of change and grow them into a movement.

The ability of social entrepreneurs to scale their programs depends on the strength of people’s participation and their capacity to create movements that are strong enough to shake the foundations of poverty and inequality the world over. But what really makes social entrepreneurs unique? Where do they get their inspiration and passion? How do they convert that inspiration into purpose and who empowers them to think in such new ways? How do we clone these people so that we end up with a better world for all?

What are your thoughts on Social Entrepreneurship? Some schools are already offering it as a major to allow people who want to approach entrepreneurship differently to actively pursue that path. I’ll love to hear your thoughts.

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41W7fmW7F+L-1Thirty years after women became 50 percent of the college graduates in the United States, men still hold the vast majority of leadership positions in government and industry. This means that women’s voices are still not heard equally in the decisions that most affect our lives. In Lean In, Sheryl Sandberg examines why women’s progress in achieving leadership roles has stalled, explains the root causes, and offers compelling, commonsense solutions that can empower women to achieve their full potential.

Ladies, I have to admit that I was a strong critic of Sheryl Sandberg, however, I spent my evening on Sunday reading her controversial book ‘Lean In‘ and I am sold, completely. Sheryl Sandberg reminds me that there is a strong case for women empowerment, changing the ratio in leadership and on the political front. If women are not in positions of power, how do we expect to be part of the decision-making process that will ignite change, remove institutional barriers and spur our financial independence. It’s a shame that 78% of Bachelor’s degrees awarded today goes to women, but we still have fewer women in leadership and political roles. The blunt truth is, men still run the world. Of the 195 independent countries in the world, only 17 are led by women. And that to me is why we cannot overcome the institutional barriers that hold women back, because there aren’t enough women in power. 21 of Fortune 500 CEOs are women, and we wonder why maternity leave policies have remain stagnant? If women don’t rise to power, nothing will change and this includes the assault/marginalization of women in developing and emerging countries – a cause that is so dear to my heart.

With staggering statistics, hard data, and academic research, Sheryl Sandberg makes her argument for the top reasons why women hold back. Aside from insecurities and the feeling of fraud that most women feel just like her, she urges women to press on.

“I still face situations that I fear are beyond my capabilities. I still have days when I feel like a fraud. And I still sometimes find myself spoken over and discounted while men sitting next to me are not. But now I know how to take a deep breath and keep my hand up. I have learned to sit at the table.”

Drenched in self-doubt and “feeling like a fraud,” women consistently underestimate themselves and their abilities. For a host of reasons, women often hold themselves back by not sitting at the table where decisions are made. Instead, they choose to watch from the sidelines. These gender stereotypes start at a young age says Sheryl.

“The gender stereotypes introduced in childhood are reinforced throughout our lives and become self-fulfilling prophesies. Most leadership positions are held by men, so women don’t expect to achieve them, and that becomes one of the reasons they don’t. The same is true with pay. Men generally earn more than women, so people expect women to earn less. And they do.”

Women need to continue to aim high after college. The idea of staying home to raise kids without having any kind of fulfillment, be it a career, business, startup or learning a trade is what makes things complicated not just for other women but our own daughters. Because, we are sending a message that “this is what a woman looks like” and “this is what a woman should do for her husband and/or family”. Like I mentioned in a blog post, we need to empower men to share the household chores at home from day one of marriage. Because, it’s everyone’s God given right to aim high and to achieve their fullest potential.

It’s funny because I meet a lot of women my age who are young, talented and blessed with beautiful young kids. These women love their family as much as I love mine, but they choose to stay at home while their husband’s work. They complain about how the society is unfair to women or how they are home cleaning and cooking while their husbands are working. They sometimes resent their role as women for this very reason. Some of them are not happy with staying home but they do because either their husband has communicated to them that he would prefer they stay home or due to financial reasons. However, women need to position themselves for career success with or without kids. My daughter is my greatest joy but I will never be happy staying home all day with her, I wouldn’t know what to do with myself or even with her. I also want to raise her to be a great leader. Girls who are outspoken and confident in their abilities are referred to as ‘bossy’ while that behavior is expected of boys. I want my daughter to grow up in a gender-free world where there is no boundaries to who she can become. And that starts with everyone, no matter what your title is.

Have you read Lean In? After reading some parts of the book, I realize that Sheryl is not talking about leaning into one’s career only, she actually emphasizes leaning into whatever it is that makes you happy but doing it in a way that empowers women not one that promotes gender stereotypes and consequently hold women back. I am not finished yet, so expect to read more of my thoughts on the blog soon.

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28398 (1)Scandal, the ABC show of 2012 and now of 2013 has got me on the edge of my seat. Shonda Rhimes is playing with my heart, body, mind and soul and I will sue her ass dammit! I mean, I hate TV, I gave up cable just because I cannot sit still for any other annoying TV series out there but days after I had called my cable provider to pick up my cable, my sister and I discovered Scandal. I wasn’t going to keep the cable for Scandal alone, so I let them have it. HuluPlus came to the rescue, thank goodness or who knows what may have happened to me. I may have turned myself into a fly in my neighbors family room watching Scandal and flying around happily during the commercials, oh goodness. What am I doing? I am never this goofy, I never write ish like this on my blog but honestly, I repeat, Shonda Rhimes is going to be in so much trouble if an episode like this week airs again. That lady held nothing back, she took an entire nation on a rollercoaster ride through the gates of hell. Or why the heck would you make Cyrus Rutherford Beene strip naked and he even hired an assasin to kill his husband? Holly Geez! Or turn the holy mother Theresa “Justice Verna” into Judas Iscariot? Or wait, you did David Rosen like that? I know he has issues, but damn! Abby finally finds love and just like that it’s gone? And most of all my dearest Olivia Pope finally willing to wait for Fitz only to get smacked in the face with all the name calling? Oh my and I really don’t have to believe this dark romance that’s coming with Fitz and Mellie. And I really want to be happy for Mellie as someone who has being through similar experiences but she really needs Jesus. And all this in one episode????? Shonda Rhimes is the queen of Television America, I am sorry but this lady has got the magic key.

The ‘gamechanger’ episode was similar to a reactor on a runaway reaction where the temperature, pressure and volume rise so quickly that none of the variables are controllable and unstoppable.

Couple of things I need to get off my chest. I am so happy for Mellie, just for one reason – marriage. Marriage in itself is a hard institution, and add to that equation dirty politics and you are really in for a battle. She is an intelligent but manipulative lady that I truly believes loves her husband. There are couple of instances where you see how deeply she cares and hopes that Fitz will find his way back to her heart. She is his biggest supporter and the first person to remind him that he is nothing without her. It is a love/hate relationship for her with Fitz because she is so brilliant, ambitious and steel-like in nature that she cannot stand that Fitz is not tough enough, so she chooses to be strong for him. She overlooks his exuberant nature, extra-marital affairs and chooses instead to put politics, the American people, her own ambitions for her husband above her marriage. Mellie is truly the one who is making all the sacrifices here. She holds the key to his presidency. If Mellie should spill one drop of her secrets to the press, he is out. And she says that clearly here when he clearly pushed her too far.

I need to make some plans. For my future after your first term is done because you’re never going to make a second term. Clearly, you’re a once around the ballroom kind of President…

Olivia Pope. I’m talking about Olivia Pope. You took her hunting? Really honey? She could be facing federal prison, but you need to spend a few minutes with your girlfriend. It’s sweet if it didn’t mean the end of your political career because you won’t make it to a second term. I will make sure of it because I need to make some plans for my political future. (laughs) And I do have a bright, bright political future. The sweet lawyer who gave up her career for her husband, suffered a miscarriage, then had a late in life baby while being the First Lady that’s GOLD. That’s a future President! That’s a hell of a second act and America loves a second act! Get over her. GET OVER HER! You see her again and I’ll blow you away. I’m an excellent shot, remember?”

However, Olivia Pope is the character I am most interested in. She is a  woman, strong yet vulnerable. I really love what Shonda Rhimes has done to Olivia’s character. Shonda shaped Olivia’s character to reveal the true insides of strong courageous women who though are powerful on the outside, are vulnerable on the inside. They have feelings, they are emotional, empathetic and they listen. Olivia Pope combines well what the true face of feminism looks like for a woman who is ruthless in her dealings but truly cares about people. That is the image of feminism that no one has talked about yet. We talk about radical feminist who want to be like men, but we very rarely talk about women in their power who use the powerful tool of vulnerability to dig deeper into the core of everyday challenges, and solve real problems. I am not sure what the future holds for Olivia Pope in this series but I hope that she is able to preserve her dignity. As someone who is against extra-marital dealings, I would like to see Olivia Pope come back stronger, bigger and better. These past episodes I have been uncomfortable with the ‘mistress’ background to her prestigious role, and that fear came when I saw the disappointment and pain on her face when Fitz dared to say “screw” and “mistress” in thesame sentence, that was below the B E L T! But the reality is that she is a mistress and when push comes to shove, and your life is on the line, the mistress is the first to go. Briauna puts it so well below

So I know in the Olitz ship we don’t like to call Olivia the mistress but that’s what she is. In this back nine, that ‘s how Fitz is going to treat her: as his mistress.

Olivia has always referred to herself as the other woman, as his mistress and now Fitz going to treat her accordingly. Olivia had numerous times to claim her rightly title as his true wife, but instead she chose to be this mistress. She could have ran away from him in 1.07. She had the chance to fess up about the rigging up she didn’t. Nope, instead she  chose to run and hide and remain the mistress.

While his treatment may seem harsh, as if he is using her for sex but that’s what you do with the a mistress. That’s what she wanted and that’s what she’s getting: mistress treatment. Not love of my life, I want to have smushy babies with you, I exist for you treatment. That type of treatment has flown down south for the winter and won’t be back for a while. 

So welcome to the new world where Olivia truly is the president’s mistress.

Fitz is clearly over on the dark side now too, and we see truly that he would have said yes as well if he had a say on rigging the election. He didn’t blink twice while taking the oxygen mask off Verna, or did he? #BULLFITZ

How did you react to the ‘gamechanger’ episode of Scandal?

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This week we celebrated the inauguration of the 44th President of the United States amidst a slow-growth economy, a decade of war that is now coming to an end, unemployment, major tax changes and so much uncertainty. None of this bothers me as much as unemployment. And as much as I am for retirement & medicare for our seniors, universal healthcare and gun safety/control, one issue that has not being largely addressed is the amount of youth unemployed in this country. It is astonishing the number of talented young men and women without jobs. This accounts for the large number of start-ups that we see (most of which fail anyways, about 99% is the number actually), but who can blame us from trying right?

Some of us were lucky. I started working at the age of fourteen and since then I have been fortunate to work for companies like Microsoft, PepsiCo, Mosaic, Intel, DuPont and HP.  And I know from experience that it takes a strong professional/critical skill such as engineering (manufacturing), nursing (healthcare) and essentially fields that are critical to an emerging world to get hired straight out of college. And I hope that the youths are taking note. As much as I love majors like Philosophy, Music, Social Science and the likes of them, unless you really are sure of what path your life will take or you have major resource and backing, college kids really need to start re-evaluating their career choices.

There is also the argument of employers not finding the critical skills needed in this global economy, which begs the question of the quality of our education. As I searched rigorously for answers, I stumbled on a research conducted by McKinsey & Company , a very good read and if you have the time, download the report here. A short infographic is also shown below.

Around the world, governments and businesses face a conundrum: high levels of youth unemployment and a shortage of job seekers with critical skills. How can a country successfully move its young people from education to employment? What are the challenges? Which interventions work? How can these be scaled up? These are the crucial questions.

Education to employment

What are your experiences with unemployment? Do you think the traditional college education is worth it? If you could change your major, what would it be?

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Reading all sort of economic reports on systematically empowering women globally for dramatic economic and social benefits. The stats are startling! Makes me excited about my upcoming start-up ready to launch in June! Stay tuned.

Today, I finally had the time to digest the entire report by Booz & Company on Empowering the Third Billion: Women and the World of Work in 2012. This report represent extensive research in over 120 countries on the impact of women in the next decade. The idea of  the “Third Billion” represents the one billion women that will be added to the global economy in the next decade. The young girls, teenagers, students who will need support to fully reach their potential lest they suffer global setbacks that continue to plague women like inequality in pay, lack of proper childcare policies, lack of or insufficient maternity leave and even more importantly the universal idea that women are primary caregivers of the household.

These billion women are bound to face some challenges and in order to minimize or tackle this challenge, there needs to a political intervention, a call to action for all businesses, organizations, NGOs, and small businesses alike. Efforts to create a supportive system that allows women to gain grounds not just in developed and emerging countries, but also in developing countries must occur to fully reap the benefits of the next decade.

According to Angela Gurria, Secretary-General of Organisation for Economic Cooperation and Development, “women are the most under-utilized economic asset in the world’s economy” . When one billion women enter the global economy in the next decade, we can either choose to empower and position them to play a significant role in the global economy, in a way that increases their financial power and consequently drive economic growth or we can choose to do nothing.

There are compelling evidence that reinforces daily the impact of women in the global economy. Women in the countries like the United States earn more academic degrees than men, yet they earn less than their male counterparts, are the primary caregivers, with lack or no maternity leave or decent childcare policies/support. Women continue to over-deliver yet get less than their fare share in return. This is all counter-intuitive especially since by the estimates generated by this report, women could have a direct impact on the GDP of the USA by 5%, for Japan 9%, 12% for UAE and 34% for countries like Egypt. Yet, we embrace the status quo and continue to discount efforts that increases opportunities available to women, and stubbornly refuse to release the cultural and political constraints that hold them back. This is a huge miss on the economic and social benefit that could be realized as a result of women empowerment.

Women are much more likely to save for and invest a large proportion of their income in their kids education. I am a prime example of that. I put aside some part of my paycheck in a college savings account because I want my daughter to reap the benefits of a world-class education. The result of these kinds of sacrifices that women make will be a generation of young adults who have a high social and economic impact for tomorrow’s future. Young adults who are empowered to tackle real challenges that we face in the world.

Part of the reason I set this blog up is to reach and meet like-minded women who are empowered and need to flex their confidence muscle to properly unleash their potential. It seems to me that so many women have the raw talent, the vibe but are lacking the tools to win big, both in their careers and as entrepreneurs. Some are even afraid to make the leap and thus wallow in the “will it work” for the rest of their lives.

To be continued…….

*PS: I am working on a start-up to combat this issue and to further ensure the success of women in the global economy and more importantly to offer tools that create financial freedom for everywoman everywhere, to make us all active economic change agents.

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Far Better is it to Dare Greatly

by ThinkFeminist on December 27, 2012

Theodore Roosevelt was a feminist. He advocated for women until his death and he was a man of great words. In his Autobiography of 1913, he wrote “Much can be done by law towards putting women on a footing of complete and entire equal rights with man – including the right to vote, the right to hold and use property, and the right to enter any profession she desires on the same terms as the man.”…”Women should have free access to every field of labor which they care to enter, and when their work is as valuable as that of a man it should be paid as highly.” He was popular among women and knew the struggles of every man/ woman as declared in his speech at the Sorbonne Paris in 1910 where he called all mankind to dare greatly.

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles,

or where the doer of deeds could have done them better.

The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena,

whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly;

who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort without error and shortcomings;

but who does actually strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotion,

who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement and

who at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly.

So that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.

Theodore Roosevelt

Citizenship in a Republic,

Speech at the Sorbonne, Paris, April 23, 1910

If you love this quote and would love to understand what it means to dare greatly, read Brene Brown’s book, Dare Greatly, How the Courage to be Vulnerable Transforms the way we Live, Love, Parent and Lead

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Did An All-Women Staff Contribute to the Sandy Hook Shooting?

December 20, 2012

I have a daughter who is three years old. Camille is very vocal and knows what she wants. She is not afraid to ask for what she wants or stand up for herself and her friends when needed.  I love my daughter more than the entire world, just like most mothers, and I want the [...]

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